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Love is Personal, Violence is Cultural — we’re vectors.

Love is Personal, Violence is Cultural — we’re vectors. This is a story about people doing their best. Like we all are. Elle and Lauren Elloise (Elle) is a drummer in a band and has been messing with gender presentation on stage for years. She and her girlfriend (Lauren) generously…

Transgender

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Love is Personal, Violence is Cultural — we’re vectors.
Love is Personal, Violence is Cultural — we’re vectors.
Transgender

11 min read


Jan 29

Traceworld

In a magical otherland, where people don’t speak but instead join their hands and trace on each others’ palms, the roughness of skin and the size and shape of hands carry meanings like the sounds of voices do on earth. When that world, Traceworld, made a mistake we also made…

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Traceworld
Traceworld

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Jan 28

Are “Mental Heath” and Compliance the same thing?

Nicky is schizophrenic. In another time and place, Nicky’s clan looked to her for wisdom and spiritual guidance. In today’s bargain, she doesn’t play well in the office. Cue distress. Nicky finds herself incarcerated and/or medicated until her “bad mental health” is beigified beneath pharmaceuticals. …

Neurodiversity

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Are “Mental Heath” and Compliance the same thing?
Are “Mental Heath” and Compliance the same thing?
Neurodiversity

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Dec 5, 2022

Othering Newton’s Alchemy — why we do it and what it says about science today

Othering Newton’s Alchemy — why we do it and what it says about science today Isaac Newton is one of those historical figures we revere as “a father of modern science”. He nerded out on puzzles; like the way light separates into colours through prisms and how objects are pulled towards the earth. As young nerd, I stanned the guy. I was surprised to learn…

History

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Othering Newton’s Alchemy — why we do it and what it says about science today
Othering Newton’s Alchemy — why we do it and what it says about science today
History

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Nov 20, 2022

The Consistency Paradigm

A fabric of expectations holds together THE DEAL™ in which we live. We’re expected, for example, to partner with someone of “a different sex” (hetero-normativity). We’re expected to read and respect non-explicit social cues (class-normativity, whiteness & neuro-normativity). And we’re expected to perform genders given to us as children…

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The Consistency Paradigm
The Consistency Paradigm

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Oct 20, 2022

“Your Expectations Are Disabling”

It’s exhausting to seek accommodations. Here’s how to make it smoother. — “I am disabled” and “I have X disability” don’t mean what you think they mean. To you they reference ableist norms and practices — the very stuff of late-bootstrap grind culture. But to your interlocutor, they mean something very different. They hear, “something is wrong with me”; and they’re invited…

Disability

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“Your Expectations Are Disabling”
“Your Expectations Are Disabling”
Disability

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Oct 12, 2022

So your child thinks they’ve caught autism.

THIS ARTICLE IS A PARODY !— saying so kinda ruins it, but them’s the rules. Screenshot of the email I recieved is at the bottom of this page. — They’re 20 years old for pete’s sake. You’d all have noticed by now. It’s like when the other one thought they were trans. It only took one serious talk with them to shut that down. Now they’re coming RIGHT AT YOU, asking for “acknowledgement”. Seeking more of your hard earned…

Actuallyautistic

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So your child thinks they’ve caught autism.
So your child thinks they’ve caught autism.
Actuallyautistic

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Oct 7, 2022

Can We Be Real About Suicidal Ideation Please?

On occasions I need to share space with a safe person in order not to die. — The following paragraphs describe the truth about my suicidal ideation. When I think of killing myself my tethers have broken loose and my lights are out. I am not visited by a spirit; not by the grim reaper, nor melancholy, nor by a medical ghost named “depression”. With my earnest…

Suicide

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Can We Be Real About Suicidal Ideation Please?
Can We Be Real About Suicidal Ideation Please?
Suicide

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Published in DivergentAuthors

·Sep 21, 2022

Why is Newness Scary? Autism & Transitions.

This insightful essay explains that Autistics don’t vibe with liminal spaces. Liminal spaces are the ones between. The waiting room. The queue. Getting out of bed. The 2020’s are one big liminal space. Getting out of bed with petrochemicals. Getting out of bed with white supremacy. With colonialism. With the…

Autism

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Why is Newness Scary? Autism & Transitions.
Why is Newness Scary? Autism & Transitions.
Autism

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Sep 19, 2022

Healing Happens in Community, not in Care

“You have Generalized Anxiety Disorder”, the doctor reveals. Or “Major Depressive Disorder”, says another. Their face offers more data — concern, concentration, confidence. You trust their confidence. They reach for their pad. “I’m going to prescribe you some medication.” You exhale the weight of the world. The care When a doctor names…

Healing From Trauma

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Healing Happens in Community, not in Care
Healing Happens in Community, not in Care
Healing From Trauma

6 min read

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